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First Child Poem: The Moment You Fall in Love All Over Again

Jan 17
3 min read

Updated: Oct 4


Pregnant woman in a plaid shirt smiles as her partner kisses her belly
A whole new kind of love is born.

Love Grows in New Arms

This is one of those poems that says everything in just a few words. The First Child poem captures the moment you fall in love all over again.


When I wrote First Child, I remembered the feeling of holding my first baby, that overwhelming wave of love that takes your breath away. And then, looking at the person next to you who helped create this little life, you realize love just got even bigger.


There’s something incredibly sacred about that moment. The world disappears. It’s just the three of you, a new kind of family, a new kind of love.


First Child

Nevermore in love

Than holding your very first child

While holding each other


From Loving Moments: Poems Celebrating Love’s Journey

Part of the Life Moments Series

© 2025 Deborah Ann Martin. All rights reserved..

Reflection of My First Child Poem

This poem is for every new parent.


For every mom who held her baby for the first time.

For every dad who felt tears come out of nowhere.

For every couple who looked at each other and realized… nothing would ever be the same, and that was a beautiful thing.


Love doesn’t just grow between two people. Sometimes, love shows up in tiny hands, sleepy eyes, and soft cries.


And it’s in those moments, cradling your child and holding your partner’s hand, that you understand what forever really means.


The Style Behind the Words

Poetry Style Name: Haiku-Inspired Love Poem

  • Structure and Form: Single tercet (3-line stanza), echoing a haiku style (5–7–5 syllables not strictly followed)

  • Tone: Reverent, tender, peaceful

  • Poetic Devices:

    • Minimalism: Every word carries weight

    • Imagery: Embracing baby while embracing each other

    • Parallel Emotion: Love for partner and love for child deepen simultaneously

  • Theme: New life, parenthood, deepened connection, sacred moments


Explore More Loving Moments

First Child captures one of life’s most sacred turning points. For more poems that follow love through different seasons — romance, family, connection — explore the full book Loving Moments: Poems Celebrating Love’s Journey.


About the Life Moments Series

My Life Moments Series celebrates the real moments that shape our lives — love, heartache, laughter, and growth.


Discover Loving Moments, Love and Heartache Moments, and Kid Moments — collections filled with poems written from the heart, for every stage of life.


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Poems like this one are meant to be felt, shared, and talked about. At Surviving Life Lessons, we believe in life survivors helping life strugglers. Our New Parents & Baby Support Group is a place for new parents to find support, and our Journaling & Writing for Healing Group is a place to write and share with others who understand. You can also browse our Community Groups Catalog to find every group that fits where you are right now.



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About the Author:

Deborah Ann Martin is the founder of Surviving Life Lessons, a published author, poet, speaker, and trainer with over 20 years of management experience across multiple industries. An MBA graduate, U.S. veteran, single mother, and rare cancer survivor, Deborah brings both professional expertise and lived experience to her writing on resilience, leadership, personal growth, and overcoming adversity. Her mission is to empower others with practical wisdom and real-life insight to navigate life’s challenges with strength and purpose.

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