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The Financial Cost of Cancer: My Experience with Financial Toxicity

Aug 29
20 min read
Financial cost of cancer with medical bills, insurance statements, HSA card, calculator, and cancer care folder.
Cancer brought challenges, but I found ways to keep going.

The financial cost of cancer exceeded the medical bills. Treatment, lost income, insurance maximums, and chronic illness changed my finances.

During the first eighteen months after my Stage IV uterine leiomyosarcoma diagnosis, I paid more than $30,000 out of pocket.


That amount came from what my health insurance required me to pay for covered medical care. It did not include every hidden cost created by cancer.


It did not include all the hours I spent researching treatments, sitting in waiting rooms, traveling to appointments, recovering from procedures, or reorganizing my life around medical care.


It did not include every grocery delivery fee, recovery supply, meal I could tolerate, household change, or hour of work I had to rearrange.


Most importantly, the expenses did not end after those first eighteen months.


Cancer did not leave me with one large bill that I eventually paid off.


It became a repeating yearly expense.


Health Insurance Did Not Make Cancer Affordable

I had health insurance.


I was thankful for it because the full cost of surgeries, chemotherapy, hospital care, imaging, medications, and specialist appointments would have been far beyond what I could pay alone.


But having insurance did not mean my care was free.


I still had:


  • Deductibles

  • Copayments

  • Coinsurance

  • Prescription costs

  • Out-of-pocket maximums

  • Premiums

  • Travel expenses

  • Food and household costs

  • Lost income

  • Services that were not fully covered


The National Cancer Institute uses the term **financial toxicity** to describe the financial problems and distress that can result from the cost of medical care. Cancer patients and survivors experience financial hardship more often than people who have not had cancer, even when they have health insurance.


I learned that health insurance could protect me from the full price of cancer while still leaving me with bills large enough to change nearly every financial decision I made.


The First Eighteen Months Cost More Than $30,000

The first eighteen months were especially expensive because so many parts of treatment happened close together.


My care included:


  • Specialist consultations

  • Imaging

  • Biopsies

  • Two cancer surgeries

  • Hospital stays

  • Port placement

  • Chemotherapy

  • Bloodwork

  • A blood transfusion

  • Follow-up appointments

  • Medications

  • Emergency treatment during an infusion reaction

  • Continued surveillance


Every part created another claim, explanation of benefits, copayment, deductible charge, or coinsurance amount.


I tried to keep track of everything, but cancer billing can be difficult to understand.


A single treatment day may create separate bills from:


  • The hospital

  • The doctor

  • The laboratory

  • The radiologist

  • The anesthesiologist

  • The pharmacy

  • The surgeon

  • Another specialist


The American Cancer Society explains that cancer expenses may include treatment, medicines, insurance deductibles, laboratory work, imaging, procedures, travel, and other out-of-pocket costs. The amount varies according to the cancer, treatment, location, health plan, and where care is provided.


The Cost Continued After Active Treatment

I initially thought the largest expenses would happen during surgery and chemotherapy.


I expected costs to decrease once the visible cancer was gone and my PET scan showed no evidence of disease (NED).


They did not stop.


I still needed:


  • Oncology appointments

  • PET and other imaging scans

  • Bloodwork

  • Maintenance medications

  • Cardiac monitoring

  • Bone-density testing

  • Thyroid care

  • Iron monitoring

  • Specialist visits

  • Treatment for long-term side effects

  • Continued surveillance for recurrence


Cancer treatment helped keep me alive.


It also left me with chronic health problems that require ongoing care.


That care costs money.


Surviving Cancer Can Create a Lifetime of Appointments

People often believe that finishing chemotherapy means the medical part of cancer is over.


For some people, it may become much quieter.


For others, treatment creates long-term or late effects that involve several parts of the body.


A cancer survivor may eventually see:


  • An oncologist

  • A primary-care provider

  • A cardiologist

  • An endocrinologist

  • A gastroenterologist

  • A neurologist

  • A pain specialist

  • A physical therapist

  • A mental health professional

  • Other specialists


This month alone, I had approximately twenty medical appointments.


They were not all directly labeled as cancer treatment.


They were connected to different health problems, monitoring needs, and body systems affected by cancer, treatment, medications, or my other chronic conditions.


I am alive to attend all those appointments.


I am grateful for that.


But surviving comes with its own kind of crazy.


Chronic Illness Has Its Own Financial Cost

Long-term health problems create expenses beyond the original cancer treatment.


Those costs may include:


  • Specialist copayments

  • Laboratory testing

  • Imaging

  • Prescription medications

  • Physical therapy

  • Medical equipment

  • Transportation

  • Parking

  • Time away from work

  • Help with household responsibilities

  • Dietary changes

  • Mobility needs

  • Mental health support


A survivor may no longer be receiving chemotherapy but may still spend much of the month managing healthcare.


That is one reason the financial story of cancer cannot be measured only from diagnosis through the last treatment.


The effects may continue for years.


I Reached My Out-of-Pocket Maximum Every Year

For approximately five years, I reached my health insurance plan’s annual out-of-pocket maximum.


That meant I paid the maximum amount required under my plan for covered, in-network care during each plan year.


Once that amount was reached, the insurance plan generally paid more of the covered in-network expenses for the rest of that plan year, according to its rules.


Then the calendar reset.


A new plan year began.


The deductible and out-of-pocket spending started again.


That yearly reset is important.


Reaching the maximum once does not protect a cancer survivor forever.


If follow-up care, scans, medications, and chronic illnesses continue, the patient may face the same large financial burden again the following year.


And then again the year after that.


My Family Out-of-Pocket Maximum Was Around $8,000 to $9,000

My son remained on my insurance until he turned twenty-six, so I carried family coverage.


During that period, my family-plan out-of-pocket maximum was roughly $8,000 to $9,000, depending on the particular year and plan.


That was not a small amount.


Even when the family had no major financial crisis outside of healthcare, knowing that we might owe thousands of dollars each year affected budgeting.


I had to think of the annual maximum almost like a predictable cancer expense.


I did not know exactly which appointment or procedure would create each bill.


I knew the bills were likely to come.


My HSA Became Part of My Cancer Budget

Because I had a qualifying high-deductible health plan, I used a health savings account, commonly called an HSA.


An HSA allows an eligible person to set aside money for qualified medical expenses. Contributions may receive tax advantages, and distributions used for qualified medical expenses can generally be tax-free under federal rules. Eligibility and tax treatment depend on the person’s health coverage and circumstances.


For me, the HSA became a practical way to prepare for the amount I expected to spend.


I was still paying the medical bills.


The HSA did not make cancer care free.


It allowed me to use pretax money for qualified expenses rather than paying all those costs from income that had already been taxed.


Pretax Does Not Mean Free

People sometimes hear “pretax” and assume the expense somehow disappears.


It does not.


If I placed money into my HSA and later used it for a qualified medical expense, that money still came from my earnings.


The advantage was in the tax treatment.


In simple terms, I could set aside money for expected medical costs before federal income tax was applied, subject to HSA rules and contribution limits.


That reduced the financial impact compared with paying the same qualified bill entirely from ordinary take-home pay.


But I still felt every dollar leaving the account.


The HSA Helped Me Plan for the Annual Reset

Because I regularly reached my out-of-pocket maximum, I knew that medical spending was not an unexpected possibility.


It was likely.


I treated HSA funding as part of my yearly financial plan.


The goal was to have money available when the deductible, coinsurance, prescription, and other qualified bills arrived.


Without that planning, I might have faced the same expenses with less money available and no tax advantage.


Unused HSA funds generally remain in the account rather than disappearing at the end of the year, and the account belongs to the individual. However, a person must meet eligibility rules to make new HSA contributions.


An HSA Is Not the Same as an FSA

People sometimes confuse an HSA with a flexible spending account.


The two accounts have different rules.


An HSA is generally connected to an eligible high-deductible health plan and belongs to the individual.


A flexible spending account is usually offered by an employer and may have different contribution, reimbursement, carryover, and forfeiture rules.


People should confirm which account they have and how it works rather than assuming all medical spending accounts are the same.


Tax rules and annual limits may change, so current information should come from the IRS, the health plan, or a qualified tax professional.


I Still Had to Pay Insurance Premiums

The annual out-of-pocket maximum did not include everything I paid for health coverage.


Insurance premiums are generally separate from the maximum.


I still had money removed from my pay for insurance coverage.


Then I paid deductibles, copayments, and coinsurance until I reached the plan’s maximum for covered care.


Some costs may not count toward a health plan’s out-of-pocket limit, such as:


  • Monthly premiums

  • Out-of-network care

  • Noncovered services

  • Certain medications

  • Expenses the plan does not consider medically necessary

  • Charges above an allowed amount

  • Other exclusions listed in the plan


Patients need to read the details of their own insurance plan because the rules vary.


Working Was Part of My Financial Survival Plan

I continued working through much of my cancer treatment.


I did not keep working because I felt well.


I worked because I needed income.


I also needed employer-sponsored health insurance.


My boss allowed me to work flexible hours.


Some days, I worked four hours, slept for two hours, and then worked another four.


On harder days, I made up some hours later or worked part of the weekend.


If I was too sick, I did not work.


That flexibility helped me continue earning wages while managing chemotherapy fatigue, brain fog, appointments, and nausea.


My Work Did Not Stop When Treatment Began

My customers needed support twenty-four hours a day.


Even though I worked an eight-hour day, our team tried to provide broad coverage.


That made it possible for me to divide my work differently.


My boss cared that the work was completed and that I met my required hours.


He did not insist that every workday look identical.


That trust mattered financially and emotionally.


Many cancer patients are not given that flexibility.


Some jobs cannot be done from home.


Some employers do not allow split schedules.


Some patients become too sick to work.


My ability to continue working was not proof that everyone should do the same.


It was one of the tools available to me.


Short-Term Disability Did Not Replace My Full Income

I had short-term disability coverage, but it replaced only about 60% of my income.


Losing 40% of a paycheck while medical and household expenses are increasing can create a serious problem.


Regular bills do not decrease automatically because someone has cancer.


The patient still may need to pay:


  • Rent or mortgage

  • Utilities

  • Car payments

  • Insurance

  • Food

  • Child-related expenses

  • Credit cards

  • Student loans

  • Medical bills


Short-term disability can provide important support.


It may still leave a large gap.


Patients should review how much the policy replaces, how long it lasts, whether there is a waiting period, and whether taxes apply to the benefit.


No One Saves Vacation Time Expecting Cancer

Cancer also consumed leave.


Before diagnosis, I had not been saving vacation and sick leave for surgeries, chemotherapy, scans, and emergencies.


Most people do not.


Leave is used for:


  • Ordinary illnesses

  • Family needs

  • Vacations

  • Appointments

  • School events

  • Home emergencies

  • Rest


Then cancer arrives and requires weeks or months of care.


Even someone who has been responsible with leave may use it quickly.


Medical Leave Can Protect a Job Without Replacing Income

Eligible employees may be able to use Family and Medical Leave Act leave for their own serious health condition. FMLA may be taken in one block, intermittently, or through a medically necessary reduced schedule in qualifying situations. FMLA leave is generally unpaid, although paid leave or disability benefits may sometimes run at the same time.


Job protection is important.


It does not pay the mortgage.


Patients need to understand the difference between:


  • Job-protected leave

  • Paid sick leave

  • Vacation

  • Short-term disability

  • Long-term disability

  • Employer accommodations

  • Reduced schedules

  • Telework


These programs may work together, but they are not interchangeable.


I Worked Extra Hours Around Appointments

Cancer appointments rarely fit neatly outside work hours.


I scheduled many appointments in the afternoon when possible.


I worked earlier, later, or on another day.


I made up time.


I used flexibility carefully because I did not want to lose the trust my boss had given me.


That meant the financial cost of cancer included more than money.


It included time.


Hours I might have spent resting were used to make up work.


Weekends sometimes became workdays.


My calendar became a negotiation between my job, my body, and the medical system.


The Hidden Cost of Time Is Real

A medical appointment may appear on paper as one hour.


In real life, it may include:


  • Driving

  • Parking

  • Checking in

  • Waiting

  • The appointment

  • Laboratory work

  • Pharmacy stops

  • Telephone calls

  • Recovery afterward

  • Making up missed work


A one-hour appointment may consume half a day.


Twenty medical appointments in one month can become almost another job.


Patients and caregivers lose time even when no separate bill is issued for that loss.


Research has estimated that the national economic burden of cancer includes both direct out-of-pocket spending and the value of patients’ time.


Cancer Changed the Way I Bought Food

Nutrition became part of treatment.


Before surgery and chemotherapy, I worked with my doctors and nutrition staff to plan protein, iron-rich foods, fruits, vegetables, broths, and other foods that might help my body heal.


During chemotherapy, many foods tasted metallic.


I still needed to eat.


Sometimes I chose foods for texture rather than taste.


I bought nuts, soup ingredients, protein foods, and items I could tolerate.


Special diets, supplements, nutritional drinks, and easier-to-eat foods may cost more than a patient’s normal grocery budget.


Not every food expense is covered by insurance or eligible for HSA reimbursement.


Grocery Delivery Became a Health Expense in My Life

During COVID and chemotherapy, I often had groceries delivered.


Delivery reduced exposure to crowded stores.


It also saved my limited energy.


The delivery fees were generally part of my household budget, not a medical claim.


That is another example of how cancer creates expenses outside the healthcare system.


A service may be medically helpful without being paid by insurance.


Preparing My Home Cost Money

Before surgery, I prepared my home for recovery.


I purchased a new couch and loveseat because I expected to sleep and recover in the living room after abdominal and back surgery.


My son helped me find them during COVID shortages.


My family also obtained items such as an adjustable tray and a nursing pillow to help me sit, rest, and protect my abdomen.


Other cancer patients may need:


  • A recliner

  • Grab bars

  • A shower chair

  • A walker

  • Pillows

  • Wound-care supplies

  • Thermometers

  • Cleaning supplies

  • Masks

  • Medication organizers

  • Transportation help


Some items may be covered under particular conditions.


Others come directly from the household budget.


Transportation Adds Up

My appointments were not always close to home.


Transportation costs may include:


  • Gas

  • Tolls

  • Parking

  • Public transportation

  • Rideshare services

  • Hotel stays

  • Meals away from home

  • Vehicle wear

  • Time from work


A family member who drives the patient may also lose work time or pay.


These costs are easy to overlook because they arrive in small amounts.


Over months or years, they can become significant.


Prompt-Pay Discounts Helped

When I could, I asked about prompt-pay discounts.


Some medical offices or facilities may reduce a bill if the patient pays the balance quickly.


Not every provider offers this.


The discount may apply only under certain conditions.


Patients should ask before paying:


  • Is there a prompt-pay discount?

  • Is there a payment plan?

  • Is financial assistance available?

  • Was insurance billed correctly?

  • Is every provider in network?

  • Can the bill be itemized?

  • Can a coding error be reviewed?

  • Is there a patient advocate or financial navigator?


The answer may be no.


It is still worth asking.


I Used My HSA Instead of Waiting for a Crisis

My HSA gave me a system.


I knew I was likely to have large qualified medical expenses.


I tried to place money into the account and use it intentionally.


That was easier than waiting for a large bill and then trying to find thousands of dollars immediately.


Not every family can fund an HSA fully.


Many people live paycheck to paycheck.


The lesson is not that an HSA solves cancer costs.


The lesson is to use every legitimate financial tool available.


A Financial Navigator Can Help

Cancer centers may have social workers, patient navigators, billing advocates, or financial navigators.


Financial navigation programs may help patients understand bills, insurance, drug assistance, transportation resources, and other costs. Research reviewed by the National Cancer Institute found that financial-navigation services can reduce some expenses and improve quality of life.


Ask early.


Do not wait until accounts are in collections.


Possible questions include:


  • Is financial counseling available?

  • Are there medication assistance programs?

  • Does the hospital offer charity care?

  • Can I apply for a payment plan?

  • Are transportation grants available?

  • Is copayment assistance available?

  • Can someone review my explanation of benefits?

  • Are there nonprofit programs for my cancer?

  • Can someone help with disability paperwork?


Insurance Mistakes Need to Be Questioned

Cancer billing involves many moving parts.


Claims may be denied because of:


  • Missing prior authorization

  • Coding mistakes

  • Incorrect provider information

  • Out-of-network processing

  • Missing medical records

  • A plan limitation

  • A clerical error


A denial is not always the final answer.


Patients may be able to request:


  • A corrected claim

  • An internal appeal

  • An external review

  • A medical-necessity letter

  • A peer-to-peer review

  • Help from the provider’s billing department


Keep records of telephone calls, names, dates, reference numbers, letters, bills, and appeal deadlines.


Out-of-Network Care Can Cost More

In-network care usually has lower negotiated costs under an insurance plan.


Out-of-network doctors, laboratories, imaging facilities, anesthesiologists, or other providers may create much higher bills or may not count fully toward the in-network out-of-pocket maximum.


Before a planned procedure, ask whether the:


  • Facility is in network

  • Surgeon is in network

  • Anesthesiologist is in network

  • Pathologist is in network

  • Laboratory is in network

  • Imaging provider is in network


Patients cannot always control every provider involved in emergency or hospital care.


Asking ahead may reduce some surprises.


Cancer Expenses Can Affect Treatment Decisions

Financial toxicity is not only about feeling worried.


Costs may influence whether someone:


  • Fills a prescription

  • Attends an appointment

  • Chooses a treatment

  • Takes medication as directed

  • Purchases food

  • Pays rent

  • Keeps insurance

  • Travels for specialist care

  • Seeks a second opinion


The National Cancer Institute notes that financial distress may affect quality of life and access to care. Some people may delay treatment, skip medications, or avoid appointments because of cost.


Patients should tell the medical team when cost is affecting care.


The doctor may not know that the prescription is unaffordable unless the patient says so.


Ask Whether Another Medication Is Available

A doctor may be able to consider:


  • A generic medicine

  • A different drug in the same treatment family

  • A manufacturer assistance program

  • A different pharmacy

  • Mail-order medication

  • A payment plan

  • A drug covered more favorably by insurance


The medically appropriate choice must come first.


Cost should still be part of the conversation.


A medication that remains at the pharmacy because the patient cannot afford it does not help.


Cancer Changed My Financial Priorities

Before cancer, I thought about ordinary financial goals.


After cancer, I had to prioritize:


  • Health insurance

  • HSA contributions

  • Medical deductibles

  • Medication

  • Emergency savings

  • Housing near medical care

  • Reliable transportation

  • Internet for telework

  • Legal documents

  • Family stability


Healthcare became one of the largest and most predictable categories in my budget.


That affected how much I could save, spend, travel, repair, or invest elsewhere.


The Rent Increase Added Another Crisis

Shortly after completing my initial treatment, my rent increased from approximately $700 to $1,200 per month.


I was still recovering financially and physically.


The increase forced me to evaluate whether I should remain in the duplex, find another rental, or buy a house.


Cancer costs did not appear in isolation.


They overlapped with housing costs, family needs, moving expenses, and long-term planning.


That is often how financial toxicity works.


It is not only one hospital bill.


It is the medical bill arriving while the rent increases and the paycheck decreases.


Buying a House Was Part of My Financial Recovery

I ultimately returned to Virginia and bought a house.


The purchase created new responsibilities, but it also gave me stability.


I could live near doctors, public transportation, my daughter, and grandchildren.


My sons and their emotional support dogs would have a place to land.


The home-buying story deserves its own focus, but financially it was connected to cancer.


I was trying to build a life that could still work if my health changed.


Chronic Care Makes the Cost Difficult to Predict

I may have twenty appointments one month and fewer the next.


One year may include expensive imaging.


Another may include a new medication, procedure, or specialist.


A chronic illness budget is difficult because the exact expenses change.


Still, certain costs can be estimated:


  • Insurance premiums

  • Annual deductible

  • Out-of-pocket maximum

  • Regular prescriptions

  • Expected specialist copayments

  • Routine scans

  • Transportation

  • HSA contributions


Planning around the highest likely amount gave me more control than hoping the bills would not arrive.


Keep a Cancer Financial Folder

Patients may benefit from keeping one folder, binder, or digital location containing:


  • Insurance policies

  • Explanation-of-benefit statements

  • Medical bills

  • Payment receipts

  • HSA records

  • Prescription costs

  • Mileage

  • Parking receipts

  • Disability paperwork

  • Leave records

  • Appeal letters

  • Assistance applications

  • Contact names

  • Account numbers

  • Deadlines


Medical information and financial information often need to be organized together.


A bill may not make sense without the matching explanation of benefits.


Review Every Bill Before Paying

Before paying, compare:


  • The medical bill

  • The insurance explanation of benefits

  • The amount the provider charged

  • The negotiated amount

  • What insurance paid

  • What the patient owes

  • Whether the claim was denied

  • Whether the service was in network

  • Whether the amount applies to the deductible or maximum


An explanation of benefits is not necessarily a bill.


A provider bill may arrive before insurance finishes processing.


Paying too quickly without checking may create more work later.


At the same time, delaying a correct bill may cause late fees or collections.


When unsure, call the insurer and provider.


Questions to Ask the Insurance Company


  • What is my deductible?

  • What is my out-of-pocket maximum?

  • Is there a separate family maximum?

  • Which costs count toward it?

  • Which services require prior authorization?

  • Is this provider in network?

  • Is this laboratory in network?

  • Does this medication require approval?

  • Is there a less expensive covered alternative?

  • How do I appeal a denial?

  • Does the plan offer a case manager?

  • How much have I paid toward the maximum this year?

  • When does the plan year reset?


Write down the answer and the representative’s name.


Questions to Ask About an HSA


  • Is my health plan HSA eligible?

  • How much may I contribute this year?

  • Does my employer contribute?

  • Which expenses are qualified?

  • Can the account reimburse an older qualified expense?

  • What records should I keep?

  • How does changing insurance affect eligibility?

  • How does Medicare affect contributions?

  • Can the HSA pay for my dependent’s qualified expenses?

  • What happens to unused money?

  • Are there account fees?

  • How should I coordinate the HSA with my thyroid and cancer prescriptions?


HSA and tax rules can change. Use current IRS guidance and qualified tax advice for individual decisions.


Questions to Ask an Employer


  • Can I telework?

  • Can I split my workday?

  • Can I make up hours?

  • Is intermittent FMLA available?

  • How much paid leave do I have?

  • How does short-term disability work?

  • What percentage of income does it replace?

  • Is the benefit taxable?

  • How long does it last?

  • What happens to health insurance during leave?

  • Is long-term disability available?

  • Can coworkers donate leave?

  • What documentation is required?

  • Can duties be adjusted temporarily?


The earlier these questions are answered, the easier it may be to plan.


Create a Yearly Cancer Budget

A basic cancer or chronic-illness budget may include:


Fixed Costs


  • Insurance premiums

  • Regular medications

  • HSA contributions

  • Transportation passes

  • Medical equipment payments


Expected Medical Costs


  • Deductible

  • Coinsurance

  • Specialist visits

  • Scans

  • Laboratory work

  • Therapy


Indirect Costs


  • Gas

  • Parking

  • Grocery delivery

  • Prepared meals

  • Pet care

  • Household help

  • Lost wages

  • Childcare

  • Hotel stays


Emergency Costs


  • Hospital visits

  • New medication

  • Unexpected procedure

  • Home repair during recovery

  • Unpaid leave


The budget will not predict everything.


It can make the predictable parts less surprising.


Celebrate Meeting the Maximum, but Understand What It Means

Reaching an insurance out-of-pocket maximum may bring relief because covered in-network costs may decrease for the rest of that plan year.


It is still not a financial victory in the usual sense.


It means the patient has already spent a large amount on healthcare.


Use the period after reaching the maximum wisely.


Ask whether there are medically needed services, follow-up appointments, or equipment that should be completed before the plan year resets.


The medical team should decide what care is needed.


Timing may sometimes help financially when it is medically reasonable.


Do Not Delay Necessary Care Only to Reach Another Plan Year

Sometimes patients try to move care into a year when they have already met the deductible or maximum.


That may reduce costs.


Medical safety must come first.


Do not delay a needed biopsy, scan, procedure, medication, or urgent appointment without discussing it with the medical team.


Money matters.


So does timing.


What I Wish Someone Had Told Me

I wish someone had told me that the $30,000 from the first eighteen months would not be the end.


I wish someone had explained that cancer costs can restart every January or every new plan year.


I wish I had understood earlier that surviving cancer could mean years of specialist appointments and chronic illness care.


I wish someone had taught me to ask about prompt-pay discounts, financial navigation, appeals, and assistance before the bills accumulated.


I wish people understood that keeping a job through chemotherapy can be a financial necessity rather than a sign that treatment is easy.


I wish every patient knew that an HSA can reduce taxes on qualified medical spending but does not make the spending disappear.


Most of all, I wish someone had said:


“The cost of cancer may continue long after everyone else believes treatment is over.”


Hope for Today

Cancer cost me more than $30,000 during the first eighteen months.


Then the next insurance year began.


The scans continued.


The medications continued.


The laboratory work continued.


The specialists continued.


For approximately five years, I reached my annual out-of-pocket maximum.


I used my HSA to pay qualified expenses with pretax money.


I continued working when I could.


I divided my hours around naps.


I made up time.


I asked about discounts.


I tracked bills.


I adjusted my budget.


Cancer treatments also left me with chronic health problems that continue to require care.


This month, I had approximately twenty medical appointments.


That is the part people may not see when they say:


“But you are NED.”


Yes, I am alive.


Yes, I am grateful.


I am also managing the cost of staying alive.


The appointments, bloodwork, medications, and specialists are part of the life treatment gave back to me.


Sometimes survival is joyful.


Sometimes it looks like a calendar full of doctors and an HSA account waiting for the next bill.


I am alive to deal with the crazy.


And because I am alive, I keep finding ways to manage it.


Frequently Asked Questions

What is financial toxicity?

Financial toxicity is the financial distress or hardship caused by the cost of medical care. It may affect quality of life and access to treatment.


Can someone experience financial toxicity while insured?

Yes. Deductibles, coinsurance, premiums, prescriptions, travel, lost income, and noncovered services may create major financial problems even for insured patients.


What is an out-of-pocket maximum?

It is the most a health plan generally requires a member to pay during a plan year for covered, in-network services subject to the plan’s rules. Premiums and certain other costs may not count.


Does the out-of-pocket maximum reset?

Usually, yes. Most plans reset deductibles and out-of-pocket totals at the beginning of a new plan year.


What is a health savings account?

An HSA is a tax-advantaged account available to eligible individuals covered by qualifying high-deductible health plans. Funds may generally be used tax-free for qualified medical expenses.


Does an HSA make healthcare free?

No. The patient still funds the account and pays the bills. The advantage is the tax treatment for eligible contributions and qualified distributions.


Do unused HSA funds expire?

HSA funds generally remain in the account and belong to the account holder. Contribution eligibility and other rules may change with insurance, Medicare enrollment, or tax status.


Can cancer survivors continue having major expenses after treatment?

Yes. Follow-up scans, maintenance medications, specialist visits, chronic treatment effects, laboratory work, and surveillance may continue for years.


Can FMLA be used intermittently for cancer care?

Eligible employees may use FMLA intermittently or on a medically necessary reduced schedule in qualifying circumstances. FMLA is generally unpaid.


Who can help with cancer bills?

An oncology social worker, financial navigator, insurer case manager, patient advocate, billing office, nonprofit organization, or medication assistance program may help.


Support on Your Journey

The financial side of cancer can feel lonely and embarrassing.


You may be fighting to survive while wondering how to pay the deductible, keep your insurance, protect your job, feed your family, and cover next month’s bills.


Surviving Life Lessons Community Groups are being formed so people can talk about the whole cancer experience, including work, money, disability, family stress, housing, and chronic illness.


Financial stress is not a personal failure.


Cancer is expensive.


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References

**National Cancer Institute. “Financial Toxicity and Cancer Treatment (PDQ®)–Patient Version.”**

**National Cancer Institute. “Managing Cancer Costs and Medical Information.”**

**National Cancer Institute. “Definition of Financial Toxicity.” NCI Dictionary of Cancer Terms.**

**National Cancer Institute. Edward Winstead. “Even If Insured, People With Advanced Cancer Often Face Financial Problems.”**

**National Cancer Institute. Carmen Phillips. “Financial Navigation Can Reduce the Financial Toxicity of Cancer Care.”**

**American Cancer Society. “Managing the Cost of Cancer Care.”**

**American Cancer Society. “Can I Get Health Insurance If I Have Cancer?”**

**American Cancer Society. “In-Network vs. Out-of-Network Treatment.”**

**American Cancer Society. “Cancer Insurance and Other Ways to Pay for Cancer Care.”**

**American Cancer Society. “Cancer Medication Assistance Programs.”**

**Internal Revenue Service. “Publication 969: Health Savings Accounts and Other Tax-Favored Health Plans.”**

**Internal Revenue Service. “Individuals Who Qualify for an HSA.”**

**Internal Revenue Service. “Distributions for Qualified Medical Expenses.”**

**U.S. Department of Labor. “Workplace Protections for Individuals Impacted by Cancer.”**

**U.S. Department of Labor. “Family and Medical Leave Act.”**

**U.S. Department of Labor. “Fact Sheet #28P: Taking Leave From Work When You or Your Family Member Has a Serious Health Condition Under the FMLA.”**



About the Author:

Deborah Ann Martin is the founder of Surviving Life Lessons, a published author, poet, speaker, and trainer with over 20 years of management experience across multiple industries. An MBA graduate, U.S. veteran, single mother, and rare cancer survivor, Deborah brings both professional expertise and lived experience to her writing on resilience, leadership, personal growth, and overcoming adversity. Her mission is to empower others with practical wisdom and real-life insight to navigate life’s challenges with strength and purpose.

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