Mother-In-Law Poem– Honoring the Unsung Hero
- Deborah Ann Martin
- Nov 23
- 3 min read
Updated: Nov 24
Not All Mother-in-Law Stories Are Bad
When I got married, I was a little afraid — the way people talk about their in-laws, especially their mother-in-law, made me feel like I should be preparing for a lifetime of tension.
But I was wrong. I was blessed.
The first time she and my father-in-law showed up at our house with a trunk full of groceries, I cried. I was a single mom then, and I’d spent years being strong on my own. That one act of love cracked something open in me.
She never judged. She prayed for our family, supported us through struggles, and showed up in ways my own mother never could. There was a season after my divorce when we stopped talking, but we healed — and today, I trust her with everything, even as the trustee of my estate.
I wrote this poem early in our relationship. I wasn’t used to showing people my writing yet, but this one felt important. I framed it and gave it to her. And now, I’m honored to share it with you.
Mother-In-Law
Now it is time for me to reflect
On the love and joy, you project.
When problems bring a tear,
You lend a caring ear.
Through the times I am at the end of my rope,
You show there is a glimmer of hope.
During the times our finances were depleted,
You have always provided what we needed.
Often, you are exhausted and tired
Yet you are there with a smile.
You do so many things from day to day.
In my lifetime, I will never be able to repay.
You are full of compassion and love,
You are a gift from above.
Courage, strength, and drive
These are part of the charm you have inside.
You are so special in so many ways
You bring sunshine to all our days.
There is not a kinder or gentler soul
In which I am proud to know.
There are so many wonderful things I saw
That makes me proud to be called "Daughter-In-Law."
From Everyday Moments
Part of the Life Moments Series
© 2025 Deborah Ann Martin. All rights reserved.
Reflection on My Mother-In-Law Poem
This poem is about honoring the women who don’t get enough credit.
So many times, society turns the mother-in-law into a punchline. But what about the ones who pray for your marriage, babysit your kids, show up with groceries, or hold your hand through grief?
Let’s change the narrative.
If you have a mother-in-law who has been a blessing in your life — tell her. Write her a card.
Share a coffee. Frame a poem. Relationships take work, but love builds bridges when we let it.
The Style Behind the Words
Poetry Style Name: Tribute Poem
Structure and Form: Free verse with rhyming couplets (AABB), 12 quatrains (48 lines)
Tone: Grateful, loving, sincere
Poetic Devices:
Repetition: “You” begins several lines, reinforcing the dedication
Imagery: Groceries, smiles, caregiving moments
Alliteration: “Compassion and love,” “courage, strength, and drive”
Metaphor: “Gift from above” symbolizes her role as a blessing
Theme: Family bonds, gratitude, unexpected blessings, honoring others
Reading Level: 6th grade — accessible, emotional, and heartfelt
Explore More Everyday Moments
Everyday Moments is a soon-to-be-released collection in the Life Moments Series. These poems are based on real-life reflections — honoring unsung heroes, simple joys, and moments that shape us. This poem is part of a collection that will be released in 2026.
This poem is part of the Life Moments Series.
About the Life Moments Series
The Life Moments Series celebrates real-life milestones and emotional journeys. Other books in the series include:
Loving Moments – celebrating romantic love
Kid Moments – capturing the wonder of childhood
Love and Heartache Moments – healing through breakups, grief, and second chances
Whether you’re recovering from a breakup or just trying to make peace with your past — these poems meet you right where you are.
References
Everyday Moments, Deborah Ann Martin, 2026.
Deborah Ann Martin Amazon Author Central Page: https://www.amazon.com/author/deborahamartin
Mother-in-laws can really be great and then turn at a drop in the hat and be your worse enemies Treat them like you would your own mom