Mine left I assume because of money. But no one asked if my giving was affecting me. I sacrificed my time and money for my kids. Self-sacrificing. 2 of my 4 kids have stopped talking.

It's ok. The money I save from them not borrowing, I am putting into this website to help people.

Like everyone on this, It hurt me terribly. It was like a death that you didn't see coming. The sudden not talk, not being told exactly what you did, not being heard. I had gotten divorce and your kids not wanting you was worse then what he did. I knew why he left, he had a mistress. I don't know why they did.

The time and money I spent on them, I now use on me. I do nice things for myself. I still text that I love them periodically or send a card. Don't know if they read it or not. But it keeps the doors open. When they do come back around, which I hope they will, money and time boundaries will be set. I enjoy my quiet time and I enjoy having some money in my pocket. If I give it, it will be if I have it. no going in debt for people who are not greatful. I love them and miss them. Tell me your story. Why did they leave? How have you moved on? How have you left the door cracked?